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Social Anxiety and Dating: UNFAIR for Guys? (my practice)

Ter this movie, I talk about why it’s so much more difficult for a fellow who is timid, quiet and introverted like you to get a gf or even a date.

(By the way, click here for the free report I mention at the end of the movie called “3 Ordinary Steps To Overcome Shyness Around Women.” – I ensure you’ll love this!)

I determined to make this movie because I kept getting emails from women and ladies that sounded like this:

“I have indeed bad social anxiety and my beau tells mij I’m too quiet and need to make some friends.”

My very first reaction to thesis emails wasgoed: “You have social anxiety and no friends and you still have a beau?!”

But this is no weirdo accident. Ter fact it’s COMMON for quiet and timid damsels to still have no trouble finding a beau. I soon figured out the reason why…

See, spil long spil a female is reasonably attractive, there will usually be a stud willing to invest the time and effort to get to know hier leisurely and get hier out of hier shell. And BOOM… a female with social anxiety now has a beau.

On the other palm, this will almost never toebijten to a boy. At best, a chick may give a boy a few “signals” that she’s interested. Usually she thinks thesis are demonstrable, but to guys they’re very subtle… so a damsel could like you for years without you everzwijn knowing and asking hier out. And 99.9% of the time she will NEVER ask you out.

I’m speaking from private practice spil well spil YEARS of interacting with bashful guys who can’t seem to attract a gf even however they are slim, not ugly, and good people.

What Makes Dating Hard For Guys Who Are Bashful, Quiet or Introverted

So that’s one of the four things I talk about te the movie:

1. The dude is always expected to initiate, which means venturing rejection and embarrassment.

The other Trio things are:

Two. An introverted dude may not know WHERE to start meeting women. If he doesn’t have a gigantic social circle, knows dating women from work is usually a bad idea, and hates noisy kroegen or clubs with their drunken teenagers… then where?

(Online dating is one option, but even there the spel is stacked against studs.)

Three. A bashful boy may be too sensitive to getting positive signals or “green lights” from a woman before demonstrating hier he’s interested by asking hier out, asking for hier phone number, going for the smooch, etc. I know you’d rather avoid major embarrassment and you also just don’t want to make hier awkward.

And the problem is, women will infrequently give you thesis “green lights,” even if they DO like you. See, if a woman likes a man, she may become more bashful to avoid “messing up.”

Or she may even Attempt to emerge uninterested because she thinks this will make the dude more attracted. (A loterijlot of women’s magazines repeat this advice overheen and overheen again.)

Four. Confidence is most likely the #1 thing that women say they want… yet it’s almost unlikely to be certain without practice. If you’ve never had a gf, or it’s bot years since you’ve kissed a female, then how can you possible be certain?

Some people tell you “Just fake it ’til you make it!” … but for mij personally that type of overly elementary motivational advice just never worked.

So What Next?

If you want to Embark learning the type of advice that actually does help, then check out my report called “3 Plain Steps To Overcome Shyness Around Damsels.”

And I’ll be back next week with a fresh movie.

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